Sunday, October 19, 2008

For One More Day

Hello to all fellow peers!

As promised, this blog will be dedicated to Mitch Albom's For One More Day. (I will try to be as detailed as I can. Be patient!) For One More Day basically covers everything, from divorce to suicide, to regret and hope. More importantly, the book's theme is parenthood and challenges people to be more appreciative of their parents. The book's essential question is: What will you do if you had the chance to spend a day with a deceased loved one?

The story starts out with a reporter interviewing Charley Benetto, an ex- major league baseball player. Charley begins his story on the night he attempted suicide:
Having lost his family, job, and reputation, he has become dependent on alcohol as a pain reliever. Now, broken-hearted, drunk and regretful, Charley drives out to his hometown, in hopes to take his life. As he staggers home, he finds his mother, now eight years deceased, is waiting for him with open arms and love. Naturally, Charley is flabbergasted at his discovery and begins asking questions and commences a commotion. His mother is unaffected and offers him food and a place to sleep as if nothing has happened. After an exhausting and strange day, gives in and takes the offer.

Before, I continue on with the story, there are some things you need to know. When Charley was a kid, his father said, “You can be a mama’s boy or a daddy’s boy, but you can’t be both.” He chose his father. Charley, looked up to his father, Len, and constantly wanted to make him proud. Len served in WWII and pushed Charley to be a tough son, free from emotions. His mother, Pauline (Posey) was a beautiful lady with the personality to match. She on the other hand, wanted Charley to be a gentleman.
Len and Posey, were a handsome couple that upheld a love/hate relationship. One day, Charley and Roberta (Charley's little sister), found their mother crying in the kitchen. Len had left them.

The next morning, Charley and his mother set off on a walk. Pauline, walks him to the park and point out a tree with the word, "Please." carved. (I believe this is the sweetest thing a mother can ever tell you.) Pauline wanted a baby, and when everything failed, she'd pray every night and day. "Please", was a prayer for Charley, he was wanted and he was the "wish granted".

As the day goes on, they visit three people.
Rose, an old patient of Pauline when she was a nurse.
(Once Pauline was a single woman again, the hospital fired her and accused her of "distracting the employees." Therefore, she turned to become a hairdresser in order to support her family.)

Miss Thelma, the Benetto's housekeeper; Pauline worked as a housekeeper as well, to put Roberta and Charley through college.
The last person they visited, was an elderly italian woman. As Charley attempted to identify the woman, Pauline confessed what happened the night before Len left. Late at night, Len left the house and Pauline followed him to the next town. It turned out that, Len led a secret life with the woman he met during WWII, and that was when it all ended.

After that strange encounter, he feels ashamed of himself and gives up alcohol, begins to reconnect with his family and earns his daughter's forgiveness. Charley, was a changed man.

Remember that reporter? Guess who it was. It was his daughter.

I hope i did a good job at summarizing the story, but i STRONGLY encourage people to read it. I can promise you that at some point, you will cry and the message will stick with you.

If you have any further questions, ask! I apologize if i sounded a bit vague.

7 comments:

Chicken Little said...

Hello Diana,
As I was reading your blog, I felt that it wasn't "vague" like you said. It was veryu organized and strategically planned. Moreover, I am not here to talk about the structure of your writng or errors, but the essence of your blog.

I feel that this book you chose for this month is great and I feel that your review was overall outsatidng. At some point, I actually grasped the story inside my head and I saw every scene and I was reading it.

To be honest with you, I havent' read a book in months-I will even dare to say years- or actually finish one. I usualy grab it, read it and throw it away. Now after reading your blog and personal motivation, I am going to start reading books.

Is not that is want to show off my reading level, but when I was in the 6th grade I did not only read 11th grade books, but classic as well. Now that I have slept for more than 3 years, I am going back to my reading and I have decided to read the Illiad from Homer.

Thank you Diana, without knowing you can really change people's mind.

Hernan_1992 said...

Hello Diana,
Very good your writting is truly amazing. I uderstood in detail everything you were trying to convey. Your blog went straight together with your topic. You never went on a tangent and stuck to your book all the way. I personally enjoyed the way you wrote about the book because it gave me the feeling that you truly had fun reading it.
I have seen this book before and to be honest once i began i was preety lost. I can agree that it is a good book, but i believe my level o reading does not compare to the one required by this book. I would always get confused about what he was saying and whether he was dreaming or if it was all a reality. Overall diana preety good job keep it up and have fun with your next blog
your bestie,
Hernan

Vincent/Chente said...

Dang It Diana,

I have never read this book but i wanna read it know. That was funny though when you asked the readers to be patient. I just have one question though, who is the reporter because you never talked about her so I'm a little bit confused on that. But either way even though he decided to make his father proud and happy on the side his mom loved him without any conditions and dang it that is pretty touching. Anyway nice book and can I borrow it from you once you are done reading it please? Good Job Diana

radio_nessa said...

wait, I might be wrong because it's been a while since I read the book, but wasn't the mother (Posey) getting all of those ladies ready for their deaths? As in they were dying and she was helping them cross over?

Oh, you forgot the mention how Charley was in that car accident, getting knocked unconscious, and then when he wakes up he is near his house? Oh, and that one voice that keeps shouting at him to wake up or to keep on fighting or something like that? And the voice turned out to be one of a firefighters?

This book made me tear up a bit. I love my mommy, so I kind of put myself in his shoes and I just teared up. I look up to his mom because she seems like such a strong, wise woman. Like one of those mothers whose got like 93 senses to tell when something wrong with you and exactly what to say to make you feel better.

Leslie C. said...

Dear Diana,
The summary of this story is really good because after reading it makes me want to read the book. It seems as if in this book the writer used pathos because it was about a man who suffered and went through a lot of things. In your summary you are very detail and you show me that the writer of the book used pathos. For example, that he wanted to commit suicide. Nice book and can't wait for the next one.

steviesaur1105 said...

Hey dianasaur,
You are a great writer and I was really motivated to keep reading your blog. Your description are at a level where I can actually have an intellectual conversation with. I don't really like books, but I have read this book and you explained it quite well. One thig i would like to ask you is, do you think that cherishing your parents and respecting them should be required? I found that the moral of this book is to be more thankful to have your parents around so that later on you don't regret it.

Vanessa Reyes said...

What attracted you to this book? What do you think about it so far? Do you like it? Would you recommend it to other people?

so this charlie has a daughter? did he know that he had a daughter? was he the king of father that would leave his family because he can't take it anymore?